Life is a frequency experience, and it’s unfolding expression and expansion into our natural states of being is the transcendence path into higher frequency experiences.
Over the past year and a half, so many beliefs, blueprints, and programming have dissolved as I've dedicated myself to the practice of forgiveness.
It’s a simple process, yet its effects are profound. Each time a positionality is forgiven, its points of awareness, memories, beliefs, and programs disappear. This practice has unfolded, step by step, leading me to realize that what I thought were limitations were actually layers of stories and identities—each tethered to a particular point of view.
One of the most significant realizations during this journey has been about manifesting and fear. For years, I believed in the power of attraction, thinking that by raising my frequency, I could pull in the people, opportunities, and outcomes I desired. I spent two decades focused on ways to shift my emotional state—affirmations, exercise, grounding practices—all designed to change my frequency. But Essence revealed to me that what I was really doing was switching from one positionality to another. The original one stayed intact. I hadn’t transcended it; I was just distracting myself.
That’s when the ceiling became apparent. I wasn’t hitting an external block; it was of my own making. Over the last year and a half, forgiving these positionalities has lifted the ceiling, allowing me to move beyond the limitations I had created.
This realization became even more clear when I made the decision to give away my belongings. Each item represented a story, a positionality tied to a past decision. As I let them go, I forgave the positionality that had chosen or received those items. With each act of forgiveness, a massive amount of energy was liberated, and I began to see life from a new perspective, unbound by those stories.
Essence said, “Lars, your fears accumulate throughout your life in proportion to your resistance to transcendence. Your positionalities have formed a protective tethering barrier around you based on their needs, expectations, desires and addictions.”
Indeed! I have found on many occasions now in this year and a half of practicing the Essence Forgiveness, that fears I used to have of saying, being and doing anything beyond the boundaries of my stories have dissolved completely. I used to be afraid of living in isolation in the woods, but desired it with all my heart. I used to be afraid of expressing from the deepest part of who I am in a public forum, and here I am.
If you were to think of a goal or outcome you have desired and haven’t stepped into, think about the reasons why.
The moment you do, you will start to instantly start up stories in your mind from the positionalities that have boundary layers of fears of the unknown. Forgiving these positionalities instantly liberates you to a higher perspective beyond the fears and all of the stories.
Fear is another aspect of this journey that has come up repeatedly for me. The positionalities tied to fear have deep roots—based on the stories we tell ourselves, the movies we watch, other’s stories, and are all tethered to our positionalities. When we forgive the positionalities that experience fear, we transcend the fear itself. In this process, the peace and grace of Essence replace the fear, offering a new vantage point.
Essence said, “Lars the roots of fear are in the positionalities that are resisting transcending a story of undesired outcomes based on the definitions of safety of the positionality experiencing the fear.
The undesired outcomes form the boundaries of life that tether all positionalities to the points of awareness of their own frequency ranges of perceptual reality.
This is why Lars, an inevitable outcome that you have experienced in your transcendence path is your complete surrender to God, and practicing being in a define-less state of nothing-nobody. You have come to realize that there is a limit to life’s experiences from within the perceptual and comprehension ranges of all of your positionalities, which are all tethered to the conscious and unconscious fears of the unknown beyond their own boundaries. It is in this nothing-nobody state that all of your stories and fears are dissolved, as all of the positionalities creating, living and telling them are all forgiven.
In this state of nothing-nobody, you transcend the perceptual limitations of all of your positionalities, and are quickly guided to the decisions that form the highest frequency outcomes for all the positionalities involved… and their capacity to handle the outcomes.”
What a thing.
This isn’t about overcoming fear through force or external actions; it’s about recognizing that fear is a construct of the positionalities we hold. By forgiving these positionalities, we can see the unfolding of life from a higher frequency, beyond fear, beyond limitation.
In this space, everything changes. Life becomes an ongoing process of creation, not attraction. When you forgive the positionalities that desire an outcome, you begin to see new possibilities—ones that couldn’t have been perceived from the limited viewpoint of the original positionality.
I think back to all of the hundreds and hundreds of goals I used to have, and how they were all tethered to the perceptual ranges of the positionalities that wrote them. Even the craziest goals, and what it would take to accomplish them, were not comprehensible to me at the time.
For instance, I didn’t realize when I was researching living in a tiny home for the last four years, and being mindful of how much of a footprint I used in my 1800sq foot home… that in the end I would give away everything, and get in my car, in complete faith of something showing up for me, and hearing on the first day of my journey out here that a tiny home was being delivered to the island I was headed to!
Now that’s living in the miracle zone!
And now, isolation has brought with it the deliciousness of being in my own thoughts without the psychic and electro-magnetic noise of a city of 1 1/2 million people. I have desired this for years, decades actually. I would often go out to the Rocky Mountains a short drive from Calgary, and wish I could be in a small home surrounded by all those trees. I meditated out there on many occasions, and had some of the most life transformative insights that created new trajectories for my business and life.
I relate this small part of my life as a way to tell the story of the outcomes of transcendence. The boundary layers of all my positionalities I had prior to the end of May of this year, wouldn’t have permitted me to completely let go and give everything away. Their thousands of needs, expectations, desires and thought form addictions would have formed a path to find another rental in Calgary, and keep going in that path.
Isolation also brought with it a delicious new spectrum of experiences with all of the relationships in my life, from new friends, old ones transforming, and even at work. As all of the boundaries of my previous positionalities wouldn’t have allowed me to see beyond all of the definitions I had of everyone I knew.
Isn’t that something? It’s epic actually!
If you were to make a list of everyone you know, stories would instantly begin forming in your mind about the dynamics of life you have and are experiencing with them.
What if you transcended all of these stories, what would happen? Have you thought about this?
Maybe you are already experiencing new transcended outcomes in your relationships by practicing the Essence Forgiveness of all the positionalities you have with everyone in your life, and are in that miracle zone in your life now. Everything is in the flow state. This is indeed what is happening all around me with those who are choosing to transcend every frequency experience they are having by practicing the Essence Forgiveness.
One commonality is occurring for all of us who are practicing the Essence Forgiveness.
We are finding that those around us who are naturally resilient will harmonize with the new version of us, and we with them. It’s as if we are playing a different instrument in the orchestra of life, and are better capable of creating harmony with everyone’s instruments (stories), no matter what piece of music we or they decide to play.
However it’s tough at times, and not always as simple as this sounds.
Those who are deeply immersed in the ocean of positionalities, and filled with mind stories that all have their boundary layers in frequency expression, will not have the capacity to comprehend the miracle zone of pure surrender. Their whole life is bound by the shackles of their own definitions, and seeing you expand beyond their boundaries is scary for them. This is expressed in all sorts of ways from cautionary advice, to outright denigration of our new unfolding stories.
I asked Essence, “What about relationships? How are these affected by transcendence?”
Essence said, “In relationships, this is the deepest honouring of another… to enter into the nothing-nobody, and be in their presence without any needs, expectations, desires and addictions. This is the space where the Grace of God flows into and through you, creating miraculous outcomes that are beyond all of the beliefs of the positionalities experiencing the other.”
It really is that simple.
To be in a state of transcending your own boundaries of perceptual defined reality while in the presence of another is such a gorgeous experience and gift for yourself and the other.
This is living in the transcendence path for forgiveness.
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